Life is enough , stop comparing yourself to others
Life is enough , stop comparing yourself to others. It will only lead to disappointment and unhappiness. Everybody is beautiful in their own way , if you took the strengths of others and compare them with your imperfections , how do you think you’d size up? And do you think this will make any sense or will make you feel good? No, it will only make you feel insecure and it leads to depression , sorrow and sadness.
HERE ARE SOME TIPS THAT WILL HELP YOU TO GROW IN YOUR LIFE CIRCLE
All most all the time we do these social comparisons without noticing we are doing it. We should always be aware of what we are doing and what not. Its a natural behavior. I suppose , something which is done by me without consciousness , the solution is very simple , ” being conscious on your work stuffs”. Have these types of thoughts to the spearhead of your responsiveness , by being aware for them. If you go on focusing such things for few days , it will be much easier with practice , soon after it will be rigid not to notice.
When you realize that you are starting comparing yourself to others , at that moment you should give yourself a halt or a break. Do not rebuke yourself or feel faulty or poor , just accept the thoughts and start changing your attention towards it.
Be okay with your imperfection:
Nobody is perfect in the whole world , everybody has some demerits. Mentally , we all know that , but deeply inside we seem to feel bad that we don’t reach To the perfection. Nobody is perfect and no-one will be , and we all should be OK with that . whatever the qualities you have in yourself , you should admire the beauty you have rather than getting depressed over silly things of what you don’t have. Keep trying to improve but never thing that you will be a “perfect person”. If you look yourself in a different way , your flaws is what makes you who you are , “you already are perfect”.
Learn to love yourself:
If you go on thinking what others have , you will never have sufficient. Humans wants are never ending. Ultimately you will demand more for more and more. That’s an innumerable cycle, and it will never lead to happiness and peace. Always , learn to realize that whatever you have that is enough. If you have shelter over head , food to eat , clothes to wear and peoples who loves you, you are blessed. Be happy with that , and you will find satisfaction.
Don't knock to others:
We all have some quality that we try to censure others , only just to prove ourselves more better. Proceeding someone else towards a lower position for the sake of your own benefits will be destructive to you. It forms a rival when you could be forming a friend. Ultimately it will hurt you as well. Alternatively , you should try to support others in their success , which will guide you to more success on your part.
Focus on your strengths:
Instead of looking at your imperfections than , rather than ask yourself what your powers are. Honor them! Be pleased of them. Don’t boast , but feel wonderful about them and work accordingly for your foremost advantage.
Count your blessings:
A higher quality of attention is required for what you have , not in , what you don’t and for what you are blessed with. Think how blissful you are to have what you have and the peoples you have in your life who care for you , who loves you , who stands behind you with your every ups and downs and most importantly who strengthen you strength.